Frequently asked questions
Honest answers to the questions people ask us most.
What is Godly Matrimony?
A matrimony service for Kerala Christians and the Malayali Christian family around the world. We help people find a life partner who shares their faith and values, with families involved in the way that feels right to each person.
Is it free?
Yes. Creating a profile, receiving recommendations, expressing interest (up to a monthly allowance) and messaging your connections are free. Premium is an optional paid plan with more interests each month.
Which churches are included?
Every Christian tradition in Kerala and beyond: Syro-Malabar, Syro-Malankara, Latin and Knanaya Catholic; Malankara Orthodox, Jacobite and Knanaya Jacobite; Mar Thoma and St. Thomas Evangelical; CSI and other Protestant churches; Pentecostal churches such as IPC, Church of God and Assemblies of God; Brethren and other evangelical churches; and more. You can say how much a partner’s church matters to you.
How are profiles verified?
Every member verifies their email address. We review photos before they appear, and members can report anything that doesn’t look right. Trusted Circle lets people who know you, such as your pastor, vouch for you.
Can my parents create my profile?
Yes. A parent or relative can create a profile for you, and it says so clearly. When you’re ready, you can claim it and decide what your family can do.
Who can see my photos and contact details?
You decide. Contact details are never shown unless you choose to share them with a connection. Photos can be visible to everyone, to connections only, or on request.
What is the Godly Life Alignment Report?
A short, private questionnaire you and a connection both answer, about faith, family, money and where you’d live. You see where you align, and what’s worth talking about, only once you’ve both finished.
I live outside India. Can I join?
Yes. Many members are in the Gulf, the UK, Europe, North America and Australia. Times are shown in your own time zone, and you can pay in several currencies.
How do I stay safe?
Never send money to anyone you’ve met online, keep talking on the site until you trust someone, and involve your family. See Staying safe.
How do I delete my account?
Account settings → Pause or close. Your account is permanently deleted after a 14-day grace period, in case you change your mind.